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Simple Steps To Maturity

Maturity is the ability to handle frustration, control anger, settle differences without violence or distuction. Maturity is patience, its the willingness to postpone gratification, to pass up the immediate pleasure or profit in favour of the long term gain. Marurity is perseverance, unselfishness, responding to the needs of others. its the ability to face unpleasantness and disappointment without becoming better. its a gift of remaining calm in the face of chos. This means peace, not only for ourselves, but for those with whom we live and for those whose lives touch ours. Marurity is humility, being able to accept and say ''I Was Wrong'' ready to say ''I Am Sorry'' and when his proven right, he does not have to say, ''I Told You So''. Maturity is the abilty to make decision, to act on that decision, and to accept full responsibility for the outcome. The immature have excuss for everything. thay are chronically tardy, their li...

Think Before You Act. Life is too SHORT

There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. She hated everyone except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She told her boyfriend one day that,"if she could only see the world, she will marry him" so one day someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything including her boyfriend. The boyfriend asked her,"now that you can see the world, will you marry me?" the girl looked at her boyfriend and noticed dat he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. she hadn't expected that. the thought of looking at him for the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him. Her boyfriend left her in tears. Days later he sent an sms saying, "take good care of your eyes my dear, because they were mine". This is how the human brain often works when our status change. Only a very few remember how life was and who was always by their side in the most painful situatio...

Think Before You Act. Life is to SHORT

There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. She hated everyone except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She told her boyfriend one day that,"if she could only see the world, she will marry him" so one day someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything including her boyfriend. The boyfriend asked her,"now that you can see the world, will you marry me?" the girl looked at her boyfriend and noticed dat he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. she hadn't expected that. the thought of looking at him for the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him. Her boyfriend left her in tears. Days later he sent an sms saying, "take good care of your eyes my dear, because they were mine". This is how the human brain often works when our status change. Only a very few remember how life was and who was always by their side in the most painful situatio...

Be Thankful in Your Thought

Begin you day by Being thankful in your thought and words. Show this gratitude by putting it into actions. The big question is how do I put it into actions. Hmmmm simple make use of the good things you have in a positive way, you can’t hide or hoard your blessings of if you do you will soon lose everything. Try to put all your blessings to use. When you do the good things of the life grows and multiply. There is no better way to show thankfulness and appreciation than using it positively, productive, and for creative purpose. By this the things you already have continues to grow with more value. You have nothing unless you are really thankful for it. The creator that created you demands nothing from you either than being grateful for every little thing He does for you. So be truly and sincerely thankful for everything then make full and fruitful use of this blessings. Live your life with a thankful heart, have a thankful thought and most importantly put everything in action.

Are You Discouraged or Never Thought Your Life Will Be Significant?

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Never allow yourself to be discouraged, and don't ever think that your life is insignificant and has no value. There are so many out there who are envying your present status and that shows how meaningful and significant your life is to them... Don't be utterly depraved for a mistake you've once made. Wake up from your slumber because failure is to make you and not to destroy you, when you fail its only makes you to be more experienced. Be Positive in your thought and plans, Say it to yourself that "Yes I Can Make It" and that is all that you need to kick start your burning passion for Excellence. You need nobody to pull you up from where you have fallen because when you fall you shall surely rise. Therefore wake up from your Slumber and make a Significant use of your life so that it will affect your unborn generations positively.

Never Look Down On Yourself

Never allow yourself to be discouraged and think that your life is insignificant and that you cannot make a change. So many people out there wish to be like you for a second but there you are thinking you are insignificant. When you try and you fail that means you are a step experience. Tell yourself you can make it and that is just what you need. Remember nobody will elevate you if you dont elevate yourself

Unique Flaws

Each of us have our own UNIQUE FLAWS . But its the cracks and flaws we each have that makes our lifes together very interesting and warding. You've just got to take each person's for what they are and look for the best in them.

You cant fail when you've got a Plan

Wanting success isn't sufficient enough to get it. You have to ask yourself, "What am I going to do to get the things I want?" Then set the plan for the answers you give yourself. The problem is how to bridge the gap which exists between where you are now and the goal you intend to reach. Focus and pray, You cannot fail with a definite step by step plan, each step carries you along to the next step like a track. All you need is a plan, the road map, and the courage to press on to your destination. You cannot get lost on a straight road leading with prays...

Love Does not Hurt

Everyone says that love hurts. But thats not true. Loneliness hurts, Rejection hurts, Losing someone hurts. Everyone is confusing those things with LOVE, but in reality Love is the only thing in this world that covers up all the pain and makes us feel better and wonderful again. So wat do u think?...

ATTRACT GOOD LUCK

A re you wishing and dreaming for a better luck? Then WAKE UP and STOP wishing, now is time the time to start making it so. Good luck dont just appear, it only comes to does that attracts it. Live this moment as if it's the most precious day of your life, live a real life and seek ways to providing a lasting value yo people around you. Make yourself lucky by exploring and learning new things, be patient and committed and luck will coming running to you. Focus on the positive possiblities in life, take the neccessary actions that will bring the neccessary posibilities to reality. Good luck comes to those that are positive and productive with creative actions. Only you can make yourself lucky today. Good luck...

Choose To Be Happy

If you are trapped between your feelings and what other people think is right, always go for whatever makes you happy, unless you want everybody to be happy except you. Being happy is ultimately a decision we must all make in our lifetime. Letting ourselves be confused by what other people want for us to do with our lives, and living out what we know is right in our heart is something that we can't allow. In fact, it is probably most beneficial if we at least create some distance between the people and ourselves in our lives that don't support our dreams. If you allow someone who doesn't believe in you to pull you away from your dreams, then they will. Your happiness is your own to find. Do the things that are pleasing to your heart, and work hard to inspire and bless others. The life you have should be cherished, and should be treated as a gift by everyone who is given it. Live life as yourself, and as yourself only, for ...

Taking the FIRST STEP is what you need to get there

W ith each act you take, your confidence grows. Take the first step and you will gain the confident to take the next step. It is always said "The journev of a thousand mile begins wit a step". The more you do, the more strength you will have to do more. Begin the journey and you will set in motion for a positive momentum that can surely carry you through. You might think you are begining small but you will be surprise to see how far you've gone. Though you may not yet gave what it takes to finish. But you will always have what it takes to begin. Effort deeds upon itself, and from the most modest initial effort, magnificent results can surely and eventually flow. Whether the goal seems close or infinitely far, the way to get there is taking the first step. Set that momentum of your actions, grow along wit with until you see yourself there. Be willing to take that first step, follow where each steps leads you until it leads you to the ultimate place you want to be...

The Time You Take

The time you take to do the right thing saves you from spending time to correcting the wrongs. The precious time you take to exercise and keep in shape saves you from spending more time being fatigue and in poor health. The time you take to be patient keeps you from spending time being frustustated. The time you take to understand saves you from been confused and misinformed. The time you take to care and connect with family and friends saves you time from being lonely and isolated. The time you take from learnini new skills prevents u from spending more time struggling to keep up wit the fast moving world. Take time as it comes, fill the time with the best you've got. Making wise use of your time gives you many more valuable options when more times comes later. Put your focus on what is needed now instead of rushing to meet whatever is next. The present time you've got is precious and now is when you can make that difference. As each time arrives, take the time to live...