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THE INTERVIEWEE WHO HATED ME

6 years ago a guy looked at me face to face, and boldly told me; "I don't like you!" I immediately fired a response, I asked him that day; "Thank you for the honest feedback, but those that you like, how has it made their life better? How does your liking people pay their bills or take a bank loan? My brother keep your like, I need God's like And that's what guarantees my future. Today I joined a CEO friend of mine in an interview Panel to recruit some new staff, it was a long session, as we returned from a coffee break to continue the hectic interview session, here was this same guy walked in with his grey jacket and CV coming for the interview. Our eyes kissed by fluke, we immediately recognised eachother; "the world is indeed spherical", I soliloquized. He felt very uncomfortable through out the interview, one could clearly see the volcanic eruption ongoing in his whole nervous system, he even mistook his date of birth for his last date of em...

Peaceful Mind

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Fill your mind with all peaceful experience possible, then make planned and deliberate excursions to them in memory. You must learn that the easiest way to an easy mind is to create an easy mind.

Think before you judge.

A doctor entered the hospital in hurry after being called in for an urgent surgery. He answered the call asap, changed his clothes and went directly to the surgery block. He found the boy’s father going and coming in the hall waiting for the doctor. Once seeing him, the dad yelled: “Why did you take all this time to come? Don’t you know that my son’s life is in danger? Don’t you have the sense of responsibility?” The doctor smiled and said: “I am sorry, I wasn’t in the hospital and I came the fastest I could after receiving the call…… And now, I wish you’d calm down so that I can do my work”“Calm down?! What if your son was in this room right now, would you calm down? If your own son dies now what will you do??” said the father angrily. The doctor smiled again and replied: “I will say what Job said in the Holy Book “From dust we came and to dust we return, blessed be the name of God...

So much good you can do

Stop worrying about how difficult it will be. Start discovering how well you can handle it. Don’t hesitate for another moment, because your hesitation works against you. Get up, get going, and get it done. Rest for a while when you are weary. But don’t rest for so long that you lose all your momentum. What will energize you is taking action. What will ease your weariness is doing something useful to make positive, meaningful progress. There are plenty of excuses, and none of them will do you any good. Leave them all behind and feel the exhilaration as you take control of your own destiny. Starting right now, there is so much good you can do. Get up, get moving in the direction of your dreams, and enjoy all the greatness you are meant to create.

Be Thankful In Your Thought

Begin you day by Being Thankful in your thought and words. Show this gratitude by putting it into actions. The big question is how do I put it into actions. Hmmmm simple, make use of the good things you have in a positive way, you can’t hide or hoard your blessings of if you do you will soon lose everything. Try to put all your blessings to use. When you do the good things of the life grows and multiply. There is no better way to show thankfulness and appreciation than using it positively, productive, and for creative purpose. By this the things you already have continues to grow with more value. You have nothing unless you are really thankful for it. The creator that created you demands nothing from you either than being grateful for every little thing He does for you. So be truly and sincerely thankful for everything then make full and fruitful use of this blessings. Live your life with a thankful heart, have a thankful thought and most importantly put everything in action.

Simple Steps To Maturity

Maturity is the ability to handle frustration, control anger, settle differences without violence or distuction. Maturity is patience, its the willingness to postpone gratification, to pass up the immediate pleasure or profit in favour of the long term gain. Marurity is perseverance, unselfishness, responding to the needs of others. its the ability to face unpleasantness and disappointment without becoming better. its a gift of remaining calm in the face of chos. This means peace, not only for ourselves, but for those with whom we live and for those whose lives touch ours. Marurity is humility, being able to accept and say ''I Was Wrong'' ready to say ''I Am Sorry'' and when his proven right, he does not have to say, ''I Told You So''. Maturity is the abilty to make decision, to act on that decision, and to accept full responsibility for the outcome. The immature have excuss for everything. thay are chronically tardy, their li...

Think Before You Act. Life is too SHORT

There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. She hated everyone except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She told her boyfriend one day that,"if she could only see the world, she will marry him" so one day someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything including her boyfriend. The boyfriend asked her,"now that you can see the world, will you marry me?" the girl looked at her boyfriend and noticed dat he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. she hadn't expected that. the thought of looking at him for the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him. Her boyfriend left her in tears. Days later he sent an sms saying, "take good care of your eyes my dear, because they were mine". This is how the human brain often works when our status change. Only a very few remember how life was and who was always by their side in the most painful situatio...